I've been doing this job for 25 years, and I tell you you're going to stuff it up doing things this way.
我干了这工作已有25年了,告诉你,你这样做事情,会把事情办糟的。
In the new country he became absorbed in making a new life for the two of us, so that he gradually ceased to grieve.
在这个新的国家里,父亲专心致志地为我们俩开创一种新的生活,慢慢地不伤心了。